The guilt you feel when you feel powerful

You know that moment when you get attention but you're not sure why... and you don't know what to do with it?

When people notice you and you immediately start wondering: "What are they thinking? Did I do something wrong? Am I being too much?"

You feel something powerful stirring inside you - this magnetic energy that wants to shine - but then the guilt (or maybe worse, shame) floods in.

• "Good girls aren't supposed to want this kind of attention."

• "Is it safe to feel alive in my own skin?" 

• “Is this ok with God?”

• "Maybe something's wrong with me for wanting to be magnetic."

So you nervous-laugh it off. You shrink back. You try to make yourself smaller, safer, more appropriate.

But here's what nobody's telling you: You're not off for feeling this way.

You're trying to choose between two things that were never meant to be separate. 

Your sensuality and your spirituality. Your power and your purity. Your magnetism and your morality.

But what if they're not opposites? What if trying to choose between them is what's keeping you stuck?

I spent years in this exact struggle - wanting to own my allure but feeling guilty for wanting it, and shame about the kind of woman that makes me. 

Getting attention but having no idea how to handle it. Feeling powerful but terrified of what others would think.

So like I did, you likely dim yourself. You shrink. You apologize for taking up space. 

And wonder why you can't attract the love you want or create the impact you're meant to have. 

Here's what nobody's telling you: Your allure isn't the problem. Your suppression is. 

That magnetic energy you feel? That's not something to hide from. That's sacred creative force that God gave you for a purpose.

But we've been taught that good Christian women don't feel their power. Don't own their magnetism. Don't embrace their full selves because it can't be trusted.

In my new video, I'm sharing the breakthrough that changed everything: How sexual energy and spiritual energy work TOGETHER to create the magnetic presence that transforms your life and love.

This isn't about being inappropriate. It's about being WHOLE. This isn't about compromise. It's about integration.  

This isn't about playing small. It's about embracing the fullness of who you are.

Watch: The Sensually Dominant Christian Woman

Because living as fragments of yourself isn't living.

Your Holy Hot Girl™ Coach,

Monique