when they celebrate your weakness but fear your strength
I had the strangest realization recently...
When I lost 30 pounds after being hospitalized, women couldn't stop complimenting me. "Girl, you look amazing!" The support flowed freely.
But now that I've transformed intentionally and released 25 pounds? Silence from those same women.
Meanwhile, the men can't stop smiling.
And just like that, I understood something profound about power.
They were comfortable with my weakness but threatened by my strength.
Sound familiar?
I just posted a short 3.5 minute video breaking down this fascinating dynamic and why it matters for every woman trying to step into her purpose.
Here's what I've discovered after years of working with ambitious Christian women:
We've been taught to manage everyone else's comfort with our power.
We build beautiful ice castles (perfectionism, over-spiritualization, the "good girl" image) to contain what God designed to be seen.
And it's exhausting.
The truth? That power you're containing isn't just about you. It's your divine assignment trying to express itself.
The 6 Self-Mastery Skills™ has helped loads of women break free from this pattern.
They've stopped apologizing for their presence, stopped managing others' reactions, and started channeling their natural allure into purpose.
And the men? They respond completely differently. Instead of feeling threatened, they're drawn to this authentic power.
The right men actually lean in, appreciate, and respect a woman who owns her energy. While women often compete, men often celebrate when you stop dimming your light.
If you're ready to stop hiding and start leading with your full power, then we should work together.
I have a few spots open for Get Acquainted Calls this week.
It's time to stop managing others' comfort and start fulfilling your purpose.
To your enhancement,
Monique